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Today's mood is totally spoilt by this morning's interview...
Super embarrassing to think back on the reaction that i have when the lady called...
SIAN JI BUA.

confidence is important xian!!!

never felt so low and discouraged after an interview before. i seriously tot im kinda gaining the momentum and shld be steady enough to get into any interview already. just as when i tot im much more prepared and less nervous to attend to interview of all sorts...
boom! the god of experience throw me 2 old bird aunties to wake me up. =.=

ok, so there are interviewers like this.
slam me with all their doubtfulness and the 'this-girl-doesn't-know-how-much-she-actually-worth' look... arugh!
k la, i know that im inexperience... however, i still cant help but to feel annoyed and discouraged by the uninterested look given by this aunty here from time to time during the interview session. perhaps like wad the agent told me, she might be testing me out to see if i can handle the attitude given. but ive already rejected one offer that can offer me higher pay, i have no reason to accept this job which can only pay me 'this much' wad. there is no chance for me to speak up for myself either. i mean yea there is but they were like ' ya ya... but its not only about this you know. and you are inexperience...'
i was like ' er, but i personally tink that experience can be accumulated and...'
den they interrupted ' noooo, but experience is important too...blaa blaa blaa... and u have no experience also..'

damn. i haven finish my sentence yet!
kept on emphasizing . i dunno if they are trying to save their budget or trying to test my communication skills and sincerity. what i know is, experience seems to be a crucial factor for the market. well, i can understand from their position too, experience will save time and save time= save money.

STILL, if so y must they say that they can afford to pay that amount for this position and ask me to go down for an interview when in actual fact they think that my expected salary is 'too high'? i put that expected pay for some sapce for the company to negotiate with me wad... den i lowered my expected salary but still, they think its too much.. =(

ok, maybe this is how the HR departmant usually do... i dunno...
im just more upset about the response and expression they gave me...
shit i realised im really weak... got a little taken aback when got shot by the 2 old lady birdy this morning. felt so dejected and down after i stepped out of the room. confidence level immediately dropped and feel so unwanted. that interview made me feel so inferior. i start to question myself with everything. den i realise i got to buck up and learn frm this interview that its only thru all these interview experiences, i can get a better idea of what i really want and need when looking for a job.

i found out that im really not good at controlling my emotions when im sad or angry or helpless. i just feel like crying all out to vent out my expressions. but i never used to be like this leh... and everytime i recall the things that i've cried over for, i feel so stupid and remorseful. i tink im just too free all these while, have become really sensitive and bo liao. i seriously hate it.

met up wif chiew rong and melissa today... it always feels so good to be around with friends who share the same frequency as you. =)